How Your Relationship With Money Keeps Your Business Small

You’re Blocking Money

When we believe something, we as humans tend to focus on that belief, to the EXCLUSION of the many other probabilities that are available. Science actually backs this up. In reality, however, beliefs are NOT real. They are merely the energetic charge we have given to and receive from something with which we have identified (sometimes very strongly).

Important: What happens, in reality, is that those beliefs cause us to be aware of only items or activities that support those beliefs. Any items or activities that do not fit the particular belief fall away and often are completely unnoticed.

How it works

Like a debater who is posing an argument in favor of his position, he only uses statements that support the position he has taken. All statements that go against that position are ignored.

Take for example a person who is ill or has an illness in their family ancestry. There is at some level a “belief” that they will or have a strong propensity to suffer the same illness. As a result, they are consciously and unconsciously aware of aches, pains or any other symptom of the (or a) feared illness. Each time they experience even the slightest indication of such, there is a mental process that notices even small discomfort and follows through to a thought of “I wonder if……(the illness is beginning).

At the same time, and equally important: strength, good feeling, physical wellbeing, etc. are not similarly acknowledged. One does not on a regular basis acknowledge every clean, deep breath or every pain-free step, or dance of joy and also say “wow, I feel so great, there is no sign of illness in my body, I am pure health.” (or similar verbal or mental acknowledgment). These things that do not support the “belief” remain completely unacknowledged.

This is important to note: When you have a belief, thoughts, and feelings that are opposite of your belief tend to not enter your awareness. Only evidence that supports the belief does.

Beliefs – Even unconscious beliefs:

Attract supporting data for that belief
Supporting data reinforces the belief, strengthening the barrier against new evidence that conflicts with the belief

Data that does not support belief unacknowledged or deleted (often unconsciously)

Example of Destructive Unconscious Beliefs:

You then begin to think more thoughts and speak more words in support of that belief. When you feel that “twinge” that maybe, could possibly be the dreaded disease (or really could just be gas) you then actively think the thought. If you’re talking on the phone or speaking with a friend, you may make a comment and possibly engage in a full-blown conversation, with strong emotions and fears.

It is in this way that people say that “your thoughts and words create your reality”. In fact, they do. And strong emotion is fuel on the “creative fire” that both strengthens and speeds the delivery of the creation. However, thoughts and words are NOT the first steps in the process.

This is true for your sales, your business revenue, the type of buyers you attract…everything.

So, how do you correct this? This is the important part. When you notice that you have a fear or a belief that you do not desire, actively open your awareness to information that supports the belief you do want to have. Allow to enter your consciousness those thoughts and “pieces of evidence” that do not support your negative belief.

Note: If you believe that you will or have a strong propensity for the family disease, naturally your energy connects with information that supports that belief. Gently, but purposely release this “information” from your thoughts. Do not aggressively suppress it (which only makes it stronger and can be quite exhausting to maintain) but rather refocus your thoughts and activities to something pleasing and joyful.

Open your awareness to information that is in support of what you desire. Again, do not be aggressive and “hunt down” the information, but ask that examples of health be shown to you and then be open to receive them. Notice in your body every place where there is well-being and good feeling. Allow that wellbeing and health to expand.

As you begin this process, this is where the magic begins. As you begin to change your focus to your well-being, more evidence of that well-being will be given to you, which will support both the belief in health and the actual health. The cells of your body, instead of receiving the energetic charge of illness, will now begin to receive the energetic charge of health.

For a time, you may have equal parts of evidence of well-being and of illness, but if you allow the process to support the belief that you desire, the feelings and evidence of health will overtake those of disease. Soon you will be receiving supporting thoughts of health and those of illness will be so minimized as to not come into your awareness at all.

As you both consciously and unconsciously “feel” the belief in wellbeing, you then “become” that healthy, well body that you desire and your cells then begin to energetically connect with the evidence that supports the new desired belief.

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Important Note: As beliefs are supported and evidence of their correctness flows to you, the focus of the belief also comes to you with ease. Consequently, undesirable beliefs, supported by undesirable evidence flow to you. Similarly desirable beliefs that are supported by evidence that support the desired belief also flow to you with ease. It is important to remember that health and wellbeing will come to you not only with equal ease as did the illness and lack, but with, in fact, greater ease because the “natural” and “intended” state is for wellness and wellbeing. To achieve illness you must push the boulders of negative belief up a hill of wellness in order to achieve un-wellness. Opposite of this is the simplicity of allowing the snowball of wellbeing to fall effortlessly from the top of the mountain, picking up speed and greater wellbeing as it travels.

Again, this discussion was of health to make a point without the emotional charge of being about money, success, or growing your business. The concepts, however, are the same.

Action Steps

Read, understand, and incorporate into your life the concepts in both The 5 Vital Secrets You Must Know To Master The Science of Creating and 3 Fatal Success Blocks.
Find a practice that works for you: E.g. meditation, guided meditation, yoga, walks in nature and combine this with the concepts that you learn in Item 1 above. If you are new to meditating, guided meditations are helpful.
As you go through your day, become aware of your beliefs and make note of undesired beliefs.
Awareness that beliefs are merely energy that connects with other energy that supports the belief and diminishes information or evidence that does not support the belief.
Ask that the belief be changed to a positive, desired belief.
Ask that evidence of the new belief is show to you.
Allow yourself to receive evidence of the new belief.
Think and speak ONLY of the evidence of the new belief.
Continue to allow the evidence of the new belief to come to you until the new, desired belief completely overwhelms and takes the place of the unwanted belief.

At this point, the new belief is energetically and naturally brings evidence and experiences that support that belief.

It is important to note that this is not merely a matter of “forcing” yourself to change your thoughts and actions. Force only gives strength to that which you are attempting to change. This would better be termed a “refocusing and allowing”. Refocusing on what is desired with an allowing of supporting data to strengthen that belief.

See the following example.

Many are feeling discomfort and distress about the local and world economies. For those who have a belief or the beginnings of a belief that they are financially unsound or in financial danger, they are energetically receptive to “evidence” of greater financial distress. As a result of their “belief” and the energetic charge of that belief, their awareness becomes filled with stories from friends or the nightly news and elsewhere of growing financial concerns. This “evidence” strengthens the belief, which energetically connects with more “evidence”.

At the same time, stories of wellbeing and even riches do not enter into their experience. And, if they do, they are struck down with mental or verbal arguments in support of the belief and all of the evidence that “confirms” that the belief is “true”.

Turn off the nightly and morning news. Purposely take inventory of all evidence of financial success and wellbeing. In some cases, this inventory may be simple. It may be as simple as noting that you had enough food to eat today. Or it may grow in depth to an acknowledgement that you have a home that protects you from the cold. That you have a car that gets you to work. That you have work. That you have money in your bank accounts.

Now, in the course of this inventory, you COULD also mentally or verbally note that your home isn’t what you desire or that you’re worried about the rent or mortgage. You could note that your car is old or ugly or that you want a better, different one.

Don’t go there. That merely serves to reinforce the currently held belief in lack and financial fear.

In this moment at this time you do have a home, a car, clothes, food, etc. Turn your loving attention to those things that you do have. Express gratitude for them, however, large or small.

Note: Ask that evidence of financial well-being come to you. Note your neighbors who are doing well. Note the friend who purchased a new car. NOT with envy, but with joy admiration, and appreciation that financial success is all around you.

As you energetically connect to the evidence of the financial wellbeing, your beliefs naturally begin to change. As your beliefs morph into those of financial success, the beliefs around scarcity diminish, causing you to energetically connect with more evidence of prosperity. More thoughts and talk of prosperity bring more evidence; more evidence enhances the belief, which brings more evidence. And soon that evidence begins to flow into your own pockets.

In this way, what you focus on creates your reality. But more importantly, the positive energy that you display, increases the positive energy to which you connect, increasing your prosperity.

Important Note: It is very important to remember that feelings and emotions are the “fuel” for the creative fire. As you add fear to your negative beliefs, you strengthen them and the speed and frequency of the negative experiences that are drawn to you. The same is true for positive feelings and emotions and the positive experiences that they call forward.

So, as you add “genuine” joy and gratitude for your positive evidence, you increase the speed and frequency of more positive experiences.

Recommended Action: Set aside time every day, at least once, but more if possible to focus exclusively on noticing the evidence of the positive things in your life. Feel the joy of them (Note: As an example, while you may not like your car, you certainly would experience negative feelings and distress if it suddenly vanished or became unusable ~ use that perspective to help you find gratitude if there is difficulty).

Suggestion: Find a song or set your gratitude to a tune. Music has its own energy. The energy of music or a tune in combination with gratefulness, increases the joy and the energetic flow through your body, enhancing the flow both through you and to you.

Closing thought: This “prescription” as stated above, may not completely and forever eliminate from your experience every sneeze or bill. However, instead of being life-altering events, they will merely be blips in your overall experience. The sneeze, if not given focus, will not develop into a life-threatening illness; and each bill is not a stepping stone to financial ruin. Unless you so choose that course.

Additional Recommendations

Meditate on a daily basis. If there are fears about money, I recommend the Fear meditation in the 3 Fatal Success Blocks booklet.
Start your day with this exercise.

Ask “what do I want to accomplish today?”
For each item, notice how your body responds, especially your heart and solar plexus.
Any items that provoke a physical response or feeling, are those for which you have a belief (which may be unconscious) that is opposite of what you want or intend. It’s telling you that you “can’t” accomplish/have/be, etc.
Explore what those beliefs might be.
Make a note of those beliefs. Awareness is the first step to clearing them.